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강박적 성향과 콤플렉스의 함수 관계
요즘 심취해 있는 단어는 강박적 성향,콤플렉스, 나르시시즘......뭐 이런 류의 정신 의학 용어들이다.
대학 진학시 심리학과를 심각하게 고려했을 정도로 인간의 심리를 탐구하는 일에 매력을 느낀다. 그래선지 정신과 의사가 펴낸 심리평전이나 에세이등은 꼭 봐야 직성이 풀린다.
이런 탐구는 타인을 향한 탐구라기보다는 다분히 자기자신을 향한 탐구가 되곤한다.
살아가면서 가장 어려운 존재는 남도 아닌 자기자신인 경우가 허다하기 때문이다. 30년을 넘게 같이 왔건만 아직도 자기자신에게 당황할때가 있다.

강박적인 성향의 심리적 축은 열등 의식이라고 한다.
현대에 콤플렉스는 열등의식과 같은 의미의 일상용어로 쓰여지고 있으며,우리로 하여금 당황하게하거나 ,화를 내게 하거나,또는 목을 메게하는 마음 속의 어떤 것이라고 정신분석학자 융은 말하고 있다.

개인적 콤플렉스는 인간의 심리적 발달과 밀접한 관련이 있으며,구강기---항문기---남근기 순서로 심리적 발달,성장을 한다고 한다.
구강기에 머물러 있는 사람은 소아적인 의존성을 가진 미숙한 사람일 가능성이 많으며,항문기적 성향의 사람은 목표를 정하고 완벽을 추구하며 강박적인 삶을 사는 데, 세상을 경쟁의 원리에 따라 바라본다고 한다.그에반해 마지막 단계의 남근기적 성향의 사람은 즐거움 자체를 추구하며,경쟁과 완벽은 그들에게 의미없는 논리라고 한다.

여기서 하나 집고 넘어가자.
요는 강박적 성향의 사람은 열등의식에 서 기인하며,항문기적 성향을 가지고 있다는 겄이다.
강박적 성향의 소유자는 어린 시절의 지나치게 엄격한 부모에 대한 -공포와 분노-,-복종과 반항-사이를 시계축처럼 왕복하며,불안정한 양가의 감정을 내면화 한다고 한다.

강박적 성향이 없는 사람들은 아마 하품이 나올 만한 얘기들이지만 나 같이 강박적 성향이 강한 사람들에게 이 해석은 감탄을 자아낸다.
세상에나 이렇게 근지러운 곳을 긁어주다니......학문을 다 -구라-라고 믿어왔건만 ....아닌 것도 있구나라고 .....

일등과 완벽에 대한 집착은 끊임없는 내적 열등감의발로이며,자신의 열등감을 보상받기 위해 다른 사람이 엄두도 못낼 만큼의 엄청난 노력을 한다고 한다.
나는 나에게서 이러한 면을 발견하곤 한다.
나의 콤플렉스는 내가 잘 안다. 잘 말하지도 않지만 ,말해줘도 잘 믿지 않을 때도 있다. 간혹 나의 콤플렉스의 대상이 혹자에게는 부러운 것일때도 있다. 다분히 상대적인 것이다.
이 열등감을 극복하기 위해 내가 쏟아부은 노력은 사실 눈물겹다.
아마도 극복이 힘들지않나!!하는 결론을 낸다.

신세대들에 대해서는 대중매체를 통해서가 아니면 분석할 방법이 없다. 같은 땅덩이에 살건만 너무 멀게 느껴지고 , 기회도없다.
대중매체에 의하면 그들은 다분히 남금기적 성향을 가졌다고 보여진다. 즐거우면 만고땡정신...
정신의학적으로 신세대들의 이러한 남근기적 성향은 심리적으로 가장 발달,성장된 상태이다.
아마추어라 그런지 이정도 해석 뿐이 안나온다.
좀 아이러니하다.








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